Satisfactory

The Rat and Rooster are just very different individuals. The Rooster is a very proud and hard-working person who demonstrates a certian thoroughness in everything he does. The Rat is a clever and astute person who has a sharp eye for opportunities and is very good at converting the chances into profits. Both have their own strengths but in a relationship these strengths go unappreciated as the self-doubting Rat may find the proud Rooster to very arrogant and may get very irritated and stressed out.

Rat Personality

The Chinese say that it is an honor to be born in the year of the Rat because Rat people are have a remarkable sense of vision. They can anticipate problems and quickly develop a strategy to deal with it even before the problem arrives. Because of this ability Rats are highly respected. It will only take the Rat less than a day to gel with a work place when it takes other people days or even weeks to get adjusted. Because of their highly perceptive nature Rats make good leaders than employees. Rats almost fit into any kind of profession.

Rats do not confide in people although they are very chatty. Though they exude a very calm air they can be very nervous people inside. Rats have a tendency to collect kick-knacks and a Rat person’s house will sure to be filled with a lot of things.

Rats are not very romantic people. But when they are with a highly compatible partner they can be very intense and passionate.

Rats always save for a rainy day. Rats are not much into the “a la mode” concept. Their homes may not be luxurious but it will be filled with warmth. Rats are very domestic and take very good care of their family.

Rooster Personlaity

The Roosters are a very proud, decisive and intelligent people. They are very brave and confident at work, very definite in decision-making and hard-working people.

Roosters like to be surrounded by people. They enjoy spotlight and exhibit charisma. They expect you to listen to them when they speak and they do have a tendency to brag about their achievements.

Roosters make their carriers a priority in their lives. They are generally successful individuals and move up to the top in an organization.

In love Roosters are emotional and possessive characters. They can either make good partners or not be successful in their marriage.

Not everyone is as manipulative as some, but we all seem to have some tendencies towards manipulation, on a sliding scale per se, as the circumstances suit us. When we find that compatible match and we are in a romantic relationship with someone, many times the walls start to come down as we begin to get to know each other better and then our true colors come into play; this is not always for the best situation; however, any conflict can become a learning experience if we allow it to be one. Of course, manipulation does not even have to wait until we are further along in our dating relationship when we are more comfortable with someone. Manipulation can even occur on a first date. So, what’s so bad about manipulation anyway and how can we avoid it and learn to coexist in a mature dating relationship with our compatible match?

According to Webster’s, manipulate means “to manage artfully or shrewdly, often in an unfair way; and to alter (figures etc.) for one’s own purposes.” That doesn’t sound too nice, but we oftentimes do exhibit this behavior in our relationships, even if we are dating someone who we deem to be a compatible match. The key here is that manipulation is done in “an unfair way…for one’s own purposes.” That’s the gist of the issue. When we manipulate our partner, we have our own gain in mind and don’t have our partner as the number one priority in our lives. If we want to maintain a mature dating relationship with our compatible partner, then we need to get our priorities straight and put our partner’s needs above our own; that means we should never stoop to manipulation.

That being said, we need to figure out how to coexist with our compatible match in a mature dating relationship, because the trap of manipulation is so easy to fall prey to. For example, when some women want their way, they pout and whine and throw a tantrum and try to manipulate the situation so that their partner will change his mind and give them their way. This is manipulation. Some men resort to manipulation when they are tired of hearing their partner’s point of view and they give their women the silent treatment. This silent treatment burns up most women because generally speaking, women like to talk through their problems in the relationship and when their men don’t want to talk it is a form of frustration and manipulation. Manipulation is never used for good purposes because there are always selfish motives behind the behaviors.

Coexisting with your compatible match in a mature dating relationship is all about honesty and being genuine and working together toward a common goal of finding a love together and having joy as a couple. If one partner is always trying to manipulate the situations that arise in the relationship, it is very important for the other partner to recognize this behavior and bring this up in a serious discussion. Most of the time, even if you have found a compatible match with a great personality, the partner that is guilty of the manipulation will not usually own up to that behavior and will just try to manipulate the situation more. If that is the case, you just need to keep walking in unconditional live, yet being strong to confront your partner when that manipulative behavior comes into play again. Hopefully, after repeated conversations on the subject, your partner will realize he or she has a problem and you can move forward as a compatible match in a manipulation free relationship. However, if the situation does not change then maybe your partner was not such a compatible match for you because manipulation in a relationship is not healthy, and maybe you need to end the relationship and move on to a healthier one.

Unhappy

The Rat-Horse relationship starts as a very passionate one. For the crafty Rat climbing up the social ladder is very important which may not be very important for the fast Horse. The Horse gets too involved in the relationship to keep up with the relalities of the world around whereas the devious Rat is always aware of what is happening beyond the boundaries of this realtionship. Due to this reason the Rat may start pulling back after a while with strong criticisms and the Horse may start feeling the high ups and way down lows of the relationship and may start feeling very hurt

Rat Personality

The Chinese say that it is an honor to be born in the year of the Rat because Rat people are have a remarkable sense of vision. They can anticipate problems and quickly develop a strategy to deal with it even before the problem arrives. Because of this ability Rats are highly respected. It will only take the Rat less than a day to gel with a work place when it takes other people days or even weeks to get adjusted. Because of their highly perceptive nature Rats make good leaders than employees. Rats almost fit into any kind of profession.

Rats do not confide in people although they are very chatty. Though they exude a very calm air they can be very nervous people inside. Rats have a tendency to collect kick-knacks and a Rat person’s house will sure to be filled with a lot of things.

Rats are not very romantic people. But when they are with a highly compatible partner they can be very intense and passionate.

Rats always save for a rainy day. Rats are not much into the “a la mode” concept. Their homes may not be luxurious but it will be filled with warmth. Rats are very domestic and take very good care of their family.

Horse Personlaity

The Horse like its animal counterpart is born to be independent and bred to succeed. Horses can be singularly focused on what they want to achieve in life that they may not bend over backwards for the good of the team. The Horse people usually are quite healthy and love outdoors and adventures. The Horse can be very stubborn and can flare up a temper when they don’t get what they want. They know that they are too cunningly focused on what they what which becomes their becomes biggest weakness to fit in with a team.

The Horse people are aggressive, ambitious, quick-witted and intelligent. They can become the center of attention in parties because of their passion to dress up, blend in with the “a la mode” and yet very stunningly stand-out.

Horse people are not high on saving up money. When they run out of it they go out and make more. They love to live life in style.

Love and romance for the horse happens only with a truly compatible partner. Because they are intense and forceful they can be pretty hard to tame.